My spouse is a firm believer that children are not fruit and you can't spoil them. I think some people feel like any amount of treating children like people whose wants are important is spoiling, and I have spent a lot of time trying to pick that apart... I had a lot of toys as a kid, and I have a lot of toys as an adult, and I don't see any reason my kid shouldn't be able to have things or experiences that she and we both enjoy. I'm sorry someone was judgemental like that at you.
(Also we have a zoo membership! Zoo all the time! XD)
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(Also we have a zoo membership! Zoo all the time! XD)